Nicole Kidman is opening up in regards to the hard-earned knowledge that’s serving to her heal after her stunning break up from husband Keith City.

Lower than two weeks after submitting for divorce following 19 years of marriage, the Oscar-winning actress shared how age, expertise, and motherhood have given her the energy to outlive heartbreak.

In a deeply emotional interview, Kidman mirrored on the teachings she has discovered about ache, resilience, and discovering peace by even essentially the most devastating moments of her life.

In a candid chat with Harper’s Bazaar revealed on October 9, Kidman revealed that her best present in getting older has been studying find out how to face challenges with calm and braveness.

“The most effective half is the experiences that you simply’ve collected,” the 58-year-old stated. “You go, ‘Oh, I’ve been right here earlier than. I truly know find out how to deal with this now.’ Or, ‘Perhaps I haven’t been on this place, however I’ve skilled one thing just like this, and I do know that I’ll get by it.’”

The “Sensible Magic” star added that regardless of how darkish issues get, she has discovered to belief that there’s all the time a means ahead.

“There’s one thing to realizing that regardless of how painful, or how troublesome, or how devastating one thing is, there’s a means by,” she stated, a quiet nod to her ongoing divorce from City.

Whereas Kidman is thought for her grace below strain, she didn’t draw back from admitting how a lot ache comes with life’s hardest moments.

“You’re going to need to really feel it,” she shared. “You’re not going to have the ability to numb it. You will need to really feel it, and it’s going to really feel insurmountable at instances. You’re going to really feel such as you’re damaged, however for those who transfer gently and slowly — and it may possibly take an infinite period of time — it does go.”

Kidman proved this when she determined to file for divorce on September 30 after reportedly making an attempt to save lots of her marriage.

Sources revealed that the couple had been dwelling aside since early summer time, however they continue to be dedicated to co-parenting their youngsters.

By means of all of it, Kidman says her greatest motivation to remain sturdy comes from being a mom.

She shares her two daughters, Sunday Rose and Religion Margaret, with City and two older kids, Bella and Connor, from her marriage to Tom Cruise.

“My kids [give me the] goal of being their protector and their information,” she advised Harper’s Bazaar. “Promising them that I’m right here and that, it doesn’t matter what, there’s all the time a protected place to develop up in.”

In her divorce submitting, Kidman was listed because the “major residential mother or father,” that means her daughters will spend 306 days of the yr together with her, whereas they’ll stick with City for 59 days.

Regardless of the painful break up, the pair reportedly agreed on co-parenting phrases with out battle.

Kidman’s current interview comes amid studies that individuals near the Hollywood icon are shocked by how shortly her estranged husband has modified since their quiet break up.

Kidman seemed calm {and professional} throughout her current discuss in Nashville, however sources say her residence life was falling aside.

As The Blast reported, buddies revealed that City, as soon as referred to as the quiet one, now appears targeted on hurting the filmmaker in public.

“Keith seems as if he’s out to attempt to publicly embarrass and damage Nic. He’s all the time been the quieter one however now that appears to have modified,” an insider revealed.

His newest transfer, altering the lyrics of a tune he wrote for her and singing it to his younger guitarist, Maggie Baugh, shocked everybody who is aware of them.