Jamie Laing and Spencer Matthews chat largest bombshells as pair conflict months after fallout

Jamie Laing and Spencer Matthews shared some house truths as they opened up on tough moments of their decades-long friendship that appeared to result in a break down of their bond

20:58, 24 Sep 2025Up to date 20:59, 24 Sep 2025

Jamie Laing and Spencer Matthews met in a fiery conflict as the previous Made In Chelsea stars tried to iron out previous variations. The ex finest friends went face to face within the newest episode of the Nice Firm podcast and opened up on their friendship breakdown.

Issues began to crumble between the pair following Jamie’s choice to snub finest pal Spencer within the invites to his marriage ceremony to Sophie Habboo in 2023. They’d been shut mates ever since they had been youngsters, with their sturdy bond showcased on the hit E4 actuality collection.

All through their intense dialogue, the pair opened up on previous tensions and misunderstandings. Let’s check out the largest points raised within the podcast…

Spencer lacking from Jamie stag do

Jamie addressed his choice frompal Spencer to overlook his stag do. He claimed he did not really feel the event was proper for Spencer because of his sobriety. He mentioned: “It is a good factor, additionally as a result of, most likely at that time, alcohol, I believe you had been essentially the most superb place, with health and alcohol and also you’re sober and all these various things.”

He continued: “In all probability since you had been possibly battling round whether or not not ingesting or ingesting, and so that you had been in a egocentric area as effectively, going, ‘I do not need to put myself in conditions that probably are going to guide me to ingesting’. Yeah, so I am not going to articulate that to Jamie. I am simply going to say I do not need to do it, as a result of that is not my factor.”

Admitting that the choice got here from a breakdown in communication, Spencer added: “That is for you, for certain. Yeah, it is a breakdown of communication. You already know, on reflection, I most likely ought to have come to stag for 2 nights and simply not drank, you recognize, that was sort of egocentric of me.”

Jamie snubs Spencer on marriage ceremony invitations

Jamie surprisingly snubbed his pal when it got here to invites for his marriage ceremony in 2023. Spencer admitted the scenario “harm him deeply“.

Two months earlier than the duo’s lavish ceremony in Spain, Jamie and Sophie held a authorized service at Chelsea Registry Workplace. On the time, Spencer, invited to be grasp of ceremonies on the most important occasion, was on vacation in Portugal in the course of the registry ceremony. His no-show sparked criticism that he had “snubbed” his finest good friend.

He then tried to defend himself, writing on-line that each he and spouse Vogue weren’t invited. Now, addressing the scenario once more, Spencer advised his good friend that he was deeply harm by his choice and was left extremely confused by the snub. Spencer mentioned on the podcast: “I’ve to say, I discovered it fairly complicated. I used to be fairly harm by that, and I attempted to brush that underneath the desk.

“And I am certain it was similar to, you recognize, I do not need to converse for you, however yeah, I am certain it wasn’t malicious from you. Nicely, no less than I might prefer to assume it wasn’t proper.”

Jamie admitted he had been anxious concerning the visitor record. “I used to be very anxious, and having a very robust time with anxiousness round, you recognize, getting married.”

Ultramarathon snub

The pair’s rift even left endurance athlete Spencer skipping Jamie’s Extremely Marathon problem for Comedian Aid. The gruelling effort noticed Jamie trek from London to Manchester for the charity.

Jamie revealed how the second affected him, saying he’s “delicate to rejection”. After Jamie learn out headlines relating to Spencer’s shun, Spencer mentioned: ” I believe on the time that this was all occurring, we might have chosen to be about, say, be males about it, however ladies most likely do that too. We might. We might have gone for dinner and simply hashed out what the problems had been, and we did not.

“And so then it sort of feels a bit bitter, after which we spend days not speaking anyway. As a result of, in actuality, you run, God is aware of what number of companies. Three, I run. Two, I’ve three kids. Like, life is simply totally different now. Like, you recognize what I imply? I haven’t got the time that I had earlier than to be throughout all of my friendships in the identical manner I’m.”

He went on: “I am not a fantastic good friend anyway. Like, genuinely, you recognize there’s a couple of those who I am in touch with semi often, and that is it.”

After placing their variations apart, Spencer and Jamie look like wanting ahead to constructing again up their friendship and getting again to their closeness from many years earlier.

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