“So You Suppose You Can Dance” star Joshua Allen‘s girlfriend is sharing her aspect of the struggle that broke out at his funeral final weekend … telling TMZ she was invited by household earlier than his aunt allegedly attacked her.

We informed you all about it — Dy’Zetta Brown had simply positioned a notice on Allen’s chest and was kissing him goodbye for the ultimate time when she was grabbed from behind by a girl, who Brown says is an aunt on his mother’s aspect of the household, in a now-infamous video.

Police have been known as to Allen’s funeral twice that day … and, Brown tells TMZ the viral altercation occurred after the primary incident — when Allen’s maternal aspect of the household informed cops she had a restraining order in opposition to him.

Brown confirms she did have a restraining order in opposition to Allen at one level, explaining … “I had no management over that call. I repeatedly informed police I didn’t need Joshua in jail — I simply needed him to get assist. However they mentioned it was out of my palms. The system did what it needed — not what was finest for him.”

She tells TMZ the 90-day emergency protecting order was reside from July till September 22 and was in place attributable to earlier psychological well being incidents.

Brown additionally says the net chatter about her being Allen’s ex is totally unfaithful. They have been collectively for almost 4 years and the date of his funeral service — Nov. 8 — marked the first anniversary of them dwelling collectively, she tells us.

She says they have been soulmates, gushing … “Joshua was the love of my life. We talked about marriage, having youngsters, shopping for a house and touring.”

Brown provides that they by no means frolicked aside till his arrest over the summer season, explaining … “Even then, he made it clear he needed to return again residence. We have been nonetheless in communication. He needed to work on issues. I liked him — and I imagine he was making an attempt.”

We broke the information — Joshua died in September after being struck by a practice. Each Brown and Allen’s father, Eddie Powell, inform TMZ he struggled with psychological well being points earlier than his loss of life.

Brown says she tried desperately to get her different half assist after she observed regarding indicators throughout their second yr of relationship — intense attachment, jealousy and paranoia.

She remembers making an attempt to warn everybody doable about her considerations — from relations and previous classmates to the police. She famous … “I begged legislation enforcement to assist along with his psychological well being — not arrest him. However nobody listened. Three days earlier than his loss of life, I contacted his probation officer and informed her I used to be scared. Her response? ‘File him so we will ship him again to jail.”

She believes the system failed Allen — and her. She remembers him as a “variety” and “gifted” particular person who had a lot to supply the world.

TMZ has tried to contact Joshua’s maternal aspect of the household … to date, no phrase again.

Allen rose to fame after successful “So You Suppose You Can Dance” Season 4 in 2008, the place the late Stephen “tWitch” Boss was the runner up. He notably starred in 2010’s “Step Up 3D” and 2011’s “Footloose” remake.