Matildas midfielder Kyra Cooney-Cross has shared her profound grief following the death of her mother, Jessica Cooney, on July 10. The 24-year-old Australian football star announced the heartbreaking news on social media, remembering her mother’s courageous fight against an aggressive form of cancer. Jessica Cooney passed away at the age of 45 after a prolonged battle with stage four cholangiocarcinoma, a rare cancer affecting the bile ducts.
A Heartbreaking Loss for Kyra Cooney-Cross
Cooney-Cross, who plays for Arsenal Women, had stepped away from professional football in March to provide care for her mother. In a poignant tribute on Instagram, the footballer described the immense pain of losing her mother at such a young age. “On Friday, the 10th of July, my biggest fear in life happened right in front of me, and never in my life did I think I’d be having to see you go so soon,” Cooney-Cross wrote. “You should still have another 45 years of precious life in front of you.”
The footballer elaborated on the depth of her fear, stating, “My biggest fear isn’t death. It’s seeing my mum so vulnerable. It’s losing my mum before I can give her the life she truly deserves.” She expressed the profound emptiness she anticipates, saying, “Nothing scares me more than a world where I can’t hear her voice. I can’t bear the thought of not feeling her hugs and kisses, not being able to tell her how much she means to me, not being able to call for my mum.”
Remembering Jessica Cooney’s Strength and Love
Kyra Cooney-Cross lauded her mother’s resilience and selflessness, highlighting her ability to endure hardship without burdening her family. “She is the most beautiful, patient, gentle, wise, loving, courageous, and strongest person I know, and I’m incredibly proud and grateful to be raised by this amazing woman,” Cooney-Cross stated. She described her mother as a “warrior” who deserved recognition for her strength.
The Arsenal midfielder also shared cherished memories, anticipating the loss of everyday moments. “I’m going to miss you giving me lectures and seeing you walk through that front door, and all the little things that make you, you,” she wrote. Despite the sorrow, Cooney-Cross found solace in knowing her mother was no longer suffering: “But I’m so glad you’re not in pain anymore.”
A Mother’s Influence and Legacy
Cooney-Cross reflected on her mother’s profound influence on her life and career. “You’re my biggest inspiration and the person I aspire to be. Mum, my favourite part is knowing that I’m a little piece of you,” she expressed. She envisioned her mother finding peace and enjoying simple pleasures, such as “nature walks, watering your plants, painting, drinking cups of tea, having naps, watching the sunrise, bird watching, and eating all the food in the world.”
The decision to pause her football career was a difficult but necessary one for Cooney-Cross, allowing her to focus on her mother’s care during her illness. This period of devoted attention underscored the deep bond between mother and daughter.
Support from the Football Community
The news of Jessica Cooney’s passing has resonated throughout the Australian football community. Many of Kyra Cooney-Cross’s teammates on the Matildas offered their heartfelt condolences and support. National team captain Sam Kerr sent her love, stating, “Sending love to you & your family Kyra.” Goalkeeper Mackenzie Arnold added, “Thinking of you and your family Ky ❤️ we’re all here for you.” Midfielder Katrina Gorry and forward Steph Catley also shared messages of support, underscoring the solidarity within the team during this difficult time.
The outpouring of support from her teammates and the wider football community highlights the respect and affection Kyra Cooney-Cross commands. Her personal struggle has touched many, drawing attention to the challenges faced by athletes balancing demanding careers with family responsibilities.
Understanding Cholangiocarcinoma
Cholangiocarcinoma, the cancer Jessica Cooney battled, is a disease that originates in the bile ducts, which are small tubes that carry bile from the liver and gallbladder to the small intestine. Bile is a digestive fluid. Stage four cholangiocarcinoma indicates that the cancer has spread to distant parts of the body, making it the most advanced stage of the disease. Treatment options and prognosis depend heavily on the stage at diagnosis and the patient’s overall health.
Early symptoms can be subtle and may include jaundice (yellowing of the skin and eyes), abdominal pain, unexplained weight loss, and changes in stool color. Due to its often late diagnosis, cholangiocarcinoma can be challenging to treat. Research into more effective therapies and earlier detection methods is ongoing.
A Time for Reflection and Healing
Kyra Cooney-Cross’s courageous sharing of her personal tragedy serves as a powerful testament to her mother’s memory and the enduring strength of family bonds. While her focus is now on grieving and healing, the support from her teammates and the football world offers a measure of comfort. The football community stands with Kyra and her family, offering solidarity during this period of profound loss.
