Prince Harry has been hit with a royal actuality test and this time, it’s coming straight from one in every of Queen Elizabeth II’s most trusted former aides.

Alisa Anderson, the late monarch’s ex-press secretary, has delivered a no-holds-barred warning, telling the Duke of Sussex to drop the “sufferer” act if he’s critical about repairing his fractured bond with the royal household.

Her blunt message comes amid Prince Harry’s want to fix damaged fences.

Alisa Anderson has a chunk of recommendation for Prince Harry that would hasten his reconciliation with the royal household.

In a brand new Channel 5 documentary titled “Prince Harry: My Horrible Yr,” the previous secretary weighed in on the Duke of Sussex’s household drama.

She started by opening up about what Prince Harry was like earlier than he stop the UK and moved together with his spouse, Meghan Markle, to the US.

“My engagement and my expertise with Prince Harry has solely been constructive. He’s very heat and really participating and type, so solely fond recollections of him, really,” Anderson stated per the Day by day Mail, including, “I feel doubtlessly it’s nearly a crossroads for him now, what does he do subsequent?”

Later within the documentary, Anderson suggested Prince Harry to “cease being the sufferer,” and “begin writing your personal scripts.”

She advised that the general public could also be rising weary of Harry portraying himself as continually underneath assault and dwelling on the difficulties of his life.

Anderson additionally criticized the 40-year-old’s resolution to talk brazenly in regards to the royal household on TV, calling it “too impulsive.”

Recall that in Could 2025, Prince Harry made the headlines when he spoke to the BBC about his father’s most cancers prognosis, admitting that he was not sure how lengthy King Charles had left to dwell.

Anderson nervous that Prince Harry’s openness might result in a scarcity of belief inside royal circles.

“I feel belief is paramount in each stroll of life, if you cannot belief your loved ones, who are you able to belief?” Anderson stated.

In accordance with her, King Charles and Prince William would seemingly be involved that welcoming Prince Harry again may end in personal data being leaked.

Moreover Anderson, different specialists additionally weighed in on Prince Harry’s scenario together with his household.

They advised that whereas he might genuinely need to reconcile together with his household, his ego could possibly be blocking the method.

Psychotherapist Emma Reed Turrell shared a direct message for the Duke in the course of the documentary.

She urged him to “stick a pin” in his ego and focus much less on successful arguments and extra on restoring relationships.

In accordance with her, forgiveness needed to come from each side. Turrell additionally pressured that reconciliation is feasible if each side present accountability and accountability.

She acknowledged that any “annus horribilis” may have lasting results and urged Harry to follow self-care, compassion, and deliberate measures to make repairs.

The brand new documentary comes three months after Prince Harry advised the BBC that he “would love a reconciliation” with the Royal Household after dropping his authorized problem over safety preparations within the U.Ok., describing the scenario as deeply painful and noting he’s “devastated” by the court docket’s resolution.

Whereas talking from California, he stated his father “received’t converse to me due to this safety stuff,” however acknowledged that he had “forgiven” his household and sees no level in persevering with the combat.

Prince Harry expressed uncertainty over how a lot time his father has left, calling life “treasured,” and added that he can not envision bringing his spouse and youngsters again to the U.Ok. in these situations.